Family

“[D]espite their ringing perorations on gender equality, many of the [Equal Rights Amendment’s] supporters are pursuing a much broader, pernicious agenda. In an effort to force the restructuring of American society at a fundamental level, they’re seeking to use the heavy hand of government to eradicate even natural, wholesome and appropriate distinctions between the sexes. Indeed, many amendment supporters are loath to admit that even the most obvious differences exist, or that they’re worthy of recognition. At the moment, the newly revived Equal Rights Amendment—now renamed the Women’s Equality Amendment—has 194 House cosponsors, with 10 in the Senate. Unlike its hoary predecessor, it contains no deadline for ratification. It will be interesting to see whether feminists will succeed in their newest efforts to impose unnecessary and largely unwanted gender-equity measures on the rest of the country or whether Americans will drive a stake through the heart of the ERA once and for all, rejecting it as a bad idea whose time will never come.” —Carol Platt Liebau

A Lenten Reflection

A Lenten Reflection
Give up complaining----focus on gratitude.
Give up pessimism----become an optimist.
Give up harsh judgments----think kindly thoughts.
Give up worry----trust Divine Providence.
Give up discouragement----be full of hope.
Give up bitterness----turn to forgiveness.
Give up hatred----return good for evil.
Give up negativism----be positive.
Give up anger----be more patient.
Give up pettiness----become mature.
Give up gloom----enjoy the beauty that is all around you.
Give up jealousy----pray for trust.
Give up gossiping----control your tongue.
Give up sin----turn to virtue.
Give up giving up----hang in there!
-Author Unknown

God and Relationships

"Forced belief does not persuade people to love God with their hearts, any
more than a forced marriage creates love for another human being. God and
relationships must be freely chosen to be meaningful and herein lies the
fundamental difference in world views. One sees their God as an angry
enforcer who needs goon squads to whip people into line. The other sees God
giving humanity free will with blessings and consequences for each choice,
but with ultimate judgment reserved for Himself." -Cal Thomas

Hello God

Hello God, I called tonight
To talk a little while
I need a friend who'll listen
To my anxiety and trial.

You see, I can't quite make it
Through a day just on my own...
I need your love to guide me,
So I'll never feel alone.

I want to ask you please to keep,
My family safe and sound.
Come and fill their lives with confidence
For whatever fate they're bound.

Give me faith, dear God, to face
Each hour throughout the day,
And not to worry over things
I can't change in any way.

I thank you God, for being home
And listening to my call,
For giving me such good advice
When I stumble and fall.

Your number, God, is the only one
That answers every time.
I never get a busy signal

The Blind Horse

Just up the road from my home is a field, with two horses in it.  From a distance, each looks like every other horse.  But if you stop your car, or are walking by, you will notice something quite amazing.   Looking into the eyes of one horse will disclose that he is blind.  His owner has chosen not to have him put down, but has made a good home for him.   This alone is amazing.
 
If nearby and listening, you will hear the sound of a bell.  Looking around for the source of the sound, you will see that it comes from the smaller horse in the field.   Attached to her halter is a small bell.  It lets her blind friend know where she is, so he can follow her.
 
As you stand and watch these two friends, you'll see how she is always checking on him, and that he will listen for her bell and then slowly walk to where she is, trusting that she will not lead him astray.  When she returns to the shelter of the barn each evening, she stops occasionally and looks back, making sure her friend isn't too far behind to hear the bell.
 
Like the owners of these two horses, God does not throw us away just because we are not perfect or because we have problems or challenges.  He watches over us and even brings others into our lives to help us when we are in need.  Sometimes we are the blind horse being guided by the little ringing bell of those who God places in our lives.   Other times we are the guide horse, helping others see.
 
Good friends are like this ....... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
 
Please listen for my bell and I'll listen for yours.
 
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

America's military

While America's military strength is important, let me add here that I've always maintained that the struggle now going on for the world will never be decided by bombs or rockets, by armies or military might. The real crisis we face today is a spiritual one; at root, it is a test of moral will and faith." -Ronald Reagan

Tought for Today - Christanity

"Christians are expected to behave furtively; they may call themselves Christians, as long as their public prayers are 'nonsectarian' -that is, avoiding the name of Jesus before mixed audiences... Drunkenness and foul language may be pardonable, but the glorification of Jesus is another matter." -Joseph Sobran

Family

Several families in Georgetown, Delaware, are standing up to challenge the status quo-Christian faith being expressed by people in the public schools. It all started with a graduation prayer in 2004 in which a minister proclaimed that the only way to salvation is through Jesus Christ. The offended families eventually sued the Indian River School District. The New York Times picked up on the story of one family, which is Jewish, and typically paints the rest of the town as backwoods hillbilly Bible-thumping zealots, simply for wanting to be able to practice their faith unmolested. Ironically, the story ends by recounting how much the Jewish family's faith has grown through the experience. Double standard, anyone?

Family

"Our lack of concern for the integrity of marriage, and our own accommodation to the new ideals of personal autonomy and self-fulfillment is observed by the world beyond the church. The recovery of a marriage culture in secular America is a long shot. Given the long-term trends and the lack of a public consensus, nothing dramatic is likely to happen... The real question is whether the church will recover a marriage culture in our own sphere. This will require a recovery of resolve and conviction, and the re-assertion of a biblical concept of the church as the body of Christ, with individual members living in fellowship, discipline, and mutual accountability under the authority of God's Word. This means that, for Christian couples, our marriages are not our own private affairs, but crucial arenas for living out faithfulness to the Lord Jesus Christ. Just imagine how Christian credibility would be demonstrated when, against the trend of marriage decline in the secular culture, researchers would report that one group stands as an obvious exception-the followers of Jesus Christ." -R. Albert Mohler

Family

“No matter what, the law will teach. It will either teach that marriage exists as a natural institution with public purposes and meanings, centered around bridging the gender divide, and bringing together one man and one woman to share their lives as husband and wife and to become father and mother to their children, or it will teach that marriage is a mere creation of the state, recognizing and condoning the private sexual choices of adults, and intended merely to fulfill adult desires. There is no other option; one or the other will become normative... We can only hope that judges and policy makers will heed... [these] warnings before it is too late.” —Robert George & Ryan Anderson

Culture

“There is an inverse connection between the carnage at Virginia Tech and the carnage that is abortion. With Virginia Tech, we saw pictures of the bloody wounded. Survivors told us the rest. With abortion, especially the partial-birth kind, the most we get are drawings... The reason is that big media wishes to promote policies associated with the Virginia Tech carnage—chiefly more gun control laws—but does not promote the policies associated with abortion, so the public is kept largely in the dark.” —Cal Thomas

Fatherhood

“Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4)

On this Father’s Day, all of us who have been blessed with children should pause not only to count our blessings, but also to commit ourselves to honoring those attendant obligations every day. We should examine the job we are doing as husbands first, then fathers. As Father Ted Hesburgh observed early in his pastorate, “The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.” Consider then the words of William Shakespeare: “It is a wise father that knows his own child.” And of Homer: “It is a wise child that knows his own father.” 

Faith and Family

Faith and Family: Marriage mugging

A case is pending in California regarding the nature of marriage in that state. Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown submitted separate but agreeing briefs on questions posed by the court. The Governor and the Attorney General concluded that, under California law, 1) there are no differences between the rights and duties accorded to married couples and registered domestic partners; 2) married couples do not possess any right that could not be eliminated by the legislature supported by a rational basis; and 3) the term “marriage” is not constitutionally protected.

Regarding elimination of marriage rights, Gov. Schwarzenegger said there is no opinion of either the Supreme Court of California or of the United States that defines the essential minimum attributes of the fundamental right of marriage. “To the extent that, in the past, civil marriage was necessary to legitimize the conjugal and family relationships then regarded as the exclusive prerogative of married couples—such as cohabitation, sexual intimacy, mutual and lifelong care and support, procreation or child-rearing—such state authorization is no longer required.” In other words, in today’s society, a state-sanctioned marriage is not a necessity.

In Iowa, Polk County Judge Robert Hanson ruled Thursday that Iowa’s Defense of Marriage Act defining marriage as between one man and one woman denies due process and equal protection. He further ordered that marriage licenses be issued to six same-sex couples.

The assault on marriage brings to mind the Federal Marriage Amendment (FMA), which most conservatives support. Others prefer marriage be left to the states, though not to judicial diktat. Whatever logic one accepts, however, it’s clear that marriage is headed for the rocks if nothing intervenes.

If You Don't Believe in God...

“If you don’t believe in God, you have no meaning in your life, and you will thus search for meaning, and you will find it anywhere. Most people, even atheists, want religion of some kind in their life. Hello, global warming, as a substitute—apparently unrecognized and not even organized—religion. Yet it is. So you can set the stage for more people, if the atheists were to ever get their way, of establishing global warming as an unofficial religion that does force people to behave in religious ways, just to a false god: the earth, a tangible god... The global warming people essentially are atheists. You cannot believe in the God of Creation and believe manmade global warming. You just can’t. You might run around and say, ‘I don’t want to destroy God’s creation.’ God’s laughing at you. You can’t! He could, but you can’t. You can’t create it; you can’t destroy it.” —Rush Limbaugh

Aetheism

“With all the attention the atheist agenda is receiving, doesn’t it seem strange that most Americans find heroes among those who reflect a biblical worldview?... Atheism has no explanation for... acts of self-giving and even self-sacrificing charity... Darwinian evolution cannot explain this kind of altruism: How does one who willingly dies for another pass on his or her genetic traits for the improvement of the species? No, defenders of atheism and Darwinism, if true to their convictions, should sneer at this kind of self-sacrifice as weak and pointless. But we know better. Why? Because we... are made in the image of God. His very character is stamped into our beings... This is the same God who tells us ‘to lay down our lives’ for our friends, ‘to let the little children come,’ and ‘to act justly and love mercy.’ Tragically, many people, including many Christians, are practical atheists, living our lives in a way that ignores God’s existence. But in the final analysis, we are all still wired to find heroes in those who live life as though God does exist.” —Mark Earley

Christians

“Despite all the calumny and harassment, Christians are generally happy, well-adjusted and uniquely unconfused about the purpose of life. We are unimpressed by the pompous idea that we are born out of nothingness, to live and die, only to disappear back into nothingness. We know this kind of thinking makes no sense at all, and we recognize this dark rhetoric for what it is: the verbal flailing of disoriented and frightened people who do not have philosophic handles on themselves or the universe in which they live. As Christians, we know that, in the course of time, from the perspective of eternity, everything is reconciled, every detail attended, every wrong righted, every kindness thanked, every wound healed, every love requited, every sin atoned, every life vindicated, every loss recovered and every loved one found.” —Linda Bowles

Faith and Family

"Our teenagers are more sexually active than any generation of youth before them. They also are consuming more pornography and compromising basic moral standards more often. It seems that many of them have lost not only their innocence, but their conscience, too. The plethora of negative and immoral behaviors glorified by a media world that's gone stark raving mad -- combined with graphic, non-judgmental sex education and a highly sexualized culture in general -- causes many of them to lose understanding of what is wrong and what is right. When a young child's sensibilities are constantly violated, and he begins to ignore the natural pangs of guilt after yielding to cultural pressures, he can end up being miserable, and begins to develop a hard heart and weak spirit. If we as parents blindly turn our own hearts away from them because we're scared of confrontation, or because we're too lazy to do 'the hard stuff' like fight for their integrity, we have a hand in dooming their young spirits to inner torment. And, ultimately, if the pattern continues, to the loss of basic decency and sensitivity to evil. ... It's critical as a parent to take control and do everything in your power to make certain that the culture does not molest your child's young mind. Setting standards for media consumption can help avoid a lot of regrets, especially when it comes to the evil of pornography. But since we are all sinners, we also need to learn to recognize when our children might be feeling uncomfortable and guilty -- and offer them hope and a way out of their despair." --columnist Rebecca Hagelin